On Tuesday, May 3, 2005, my wife (Susan Dee Reid, formerly Susan Dee
Strothman) passed away at age 43 after battling various health
complications over a period of several years. Many of these
complications were the result of a gastric bypass operation which she
went through in 1996. At the time of her death, she was suffering
from severe malnutrition along with other problems, which may have
been what allowed the pneumonia to overcome her so quickly. A
memorial service for Sue was held on Saturday, May 14, 2005 at 2:00 PM
in the Jehovah's Witnesses Kingdom Hall at 10 Honey Run Road in Chico,
California, USA. Her loss continues to be felt by many, and I am
making many major adjustments in my life as I work towards going on
without her. Anyone who is considering undergoing a gastric bypass
operation should take note that the surgery is major, sometimes causes
long term complications that may not begin to manifest themselves
until a considerable amount of time after the surgery (perhaps even
more than a year later), and that in the end, whether directly or
indirectly, the surgery can kill you. Sue wanted to warn others of
the all too real possibility of some very nasty complications that can
result from this type of surgery, but since she is gone, this little
notice about her passing will have to do. Note further that despite
her great, prolongued suffering, we were not able to sue anyone for
any damages because sometimes surgeries just go bad (so we were told
by the lawyers who looked over the case), so our finances were ruined
completely, and we could not find any way to get relief.